October is Adopt a Shelter Dog Month. To honour this day, here’s a story of adoption – from a dog’s perspective.
Hi there! I’m your new furry friend, and I want to tell you a little bit about my journey to finding my forever home.
My Life in the Shelter
The shelter is filled with different kinds of dogs – some playful, others shy, like me. Each day felt like a waiting game. Some of us arrived here because our owners couldn’t care for us anymore, while others, like me, got lost and never found our way back. Being here is a mix of emotions. There’s hope, but also uncertainty. I saw people walk past my kennel every day and I’d wonder, “Will today be the day?”
Then, one day, something different happened. You stopped at my kennel, knelt down, and smiled. I was nervous, but something in your eyes told me I might just have found the one. We went for a walk, you gave me a treat, and before I knew it, I was going home with you!
The First 3 Days: Overwhelmed and Unsure
When I arrived at your home, it was both exciting and terrifying. Everything was new – the smells, the sounds, the routine. For the first few days, I felt a bit overwhelmed. You probably noticed I was hesitant or shy, maybe even hiding under furniture or in my crate. Some shelter dogs may feel nervous and confused, unsure of where they fit in this new world. That was me: scared, but curious about this new adventure.
But don’t worry. This phase is normal. I was just trying to figure out my surroundings and where I belong in this new home. The shelter life was a distant memory and now I was starting to realize I had a place of my own.
After 3 Weeks: Settling In
By the time we hit the three-week mark, I was starting to get the hang of things. I knew when mealtimes were, what time we’d go for walks, and where my bed was. I started showing more of my true personality, whether that was bouncing with energy or snuggling up next to you.
During this period, I started to trust you more. I realized this was my new home. I became more relaxed, learning the rules of the house and what’s expected of me. Some dogs might be slower to warm up, while others, like me, may be a little quicker to adjust, but at this stage, it starts to feel real. I could finally exhale, knowing that I was safe.
After 3 Months: Fully Home
By three months, I was fully part of the family. I had a routine, knew where my favorite toys were, and had bonded with you. This was my home, and I no longer had the lingering fear of being sent back to the shelter. I had figured out your schedule and was comfortable with my surroundings. You and I had become a team, and my new life was something I cherished every day.
Why the 3-3-3 Rule Matters
The 3-3-3 rule (3 days, 3 weeks, and 3 months) helps explain what many adopted dogs experience during their transition into a new home. It takes time for us to adjust, and it’s important to be patient and understanding during this journey. The initial days might be tough for both of us, but with time, I will grow more comfortable, trusting, and confident.
You gave me something incredible – a second chance! And every day I’ll show you my gratitude in tail wags, cuddles, and moments where I gaze at you with pure love. Thank you for adopting me and giving me the life I always dreamed of!
